Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus "The difference between men and women in the way they're communicating"

Hi Everyone !

             How are you guys doing? I hope you guys are wonderful and feeling excellent today, because I'm going to give you something that really interesting to talk, but maybe it just for some people, especially for those of you who have a relationship. A relationship between a men and a women who love each other for many reason that makes them feel so comfortable when they're together as one. Or for those of you who have married, have a lovely family, have a nice relationship as a husband and wife, then share every compassion together in your life.

Today's post I'm going to talk about.

          MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS. Do you have the idea what that means? or some of you might be ask," Men Are from Mars? Women Are from Venus?, How could it be? I thought that we're from Earth !!"  Okay, here it is.. "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus"  is the tittle of a book written by John Gray which talking about the relationship between men and women. I got this such recommended book from my lecturer at the previous meeting of reading class. That book contains a lot suggestion for improving the relationship through understanding style communication  and the emotional needs of the opposite sex. This book give us the idea that men and women are very different in so many things, like they have the different understanding in some point of view, have the different things in how to act in some particular situation,  and how to fix the problems.

         

         As we know, there are so many people who truly love each other but they can't make their relationship work for a long time, like when you broke with your boyfriend/girlfriend or someone who gets divorced, you know what ! That's all because men and women just too different. And it probably makes you realize something that you've always asking about, especially for a men, when your girl have a problem and she's complaining to you, then you somehow feel like she's blaming you for it, and she's complaining to you again and again but you always tried to keep offering her solution to her problem, and again she keep complaining and complaining  :), then you feel don't understand and asking WHY?? and WHY??
    But now, you don't have to be worried, this book will open your mind to get the understanding about the hard things happened toward your relationship.

Author : John Gray
Country : United States
Language : English
Genre : non-fiction, relationships, psychology, self-help
Publisher : Harper Collins
Publication date : January 1, 1992
Media type : Hardcover
Pages : 286
ISBN : 9780060574215

This book was published in 1992 by John Gray who apparently has little credibility. The book is rated three and a half out of five stars based on 3,400 reviews and a hundred and fourteen thousand readers. the book has sold more than 50 million copies and according to CNN, it was the highest ranked work of "non-fiction" of the 1990s, spending 121 weeks on the bestseller list.

    So impressive, right?  Here's I got its story line

"Once upon a time Martians and Venusians met, fell in love, and had happy relationship together because they respected and accepted their differences. Then they came to Earth and amnesia set in: they forgot they were from different planets."

        And at this moment I just want to notice one of the most interesting part according to this book, it's about the biggest different between men and women in the way they're communicating. According to Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, Men typically communicate the way men do, and it's totally different language than women communicate. Women communicate in a totally different ways, but the problem is, they actually use the same words, but they have the different meanings.

For example:

 A men says to his women, "Honey, what's the matter? , then the women says nothing. So the men assume that is what she means, then he say "Okay I'll watch TV. And the women assumed that he doesn't even care about her.  You can see guys ! When a woman says nothing the matter, but what she means in her languages is something the matter. A women will assume that if her men care, he will ask her more and more questions. so, if he doesn't ask more questions she thinks he doesn't care. Very complicated, right? but yeah that's the women.  It's totally different when a women ask  men "what's wrong?", and when he says nothing, he means it's truly nothing wrong. And the women will go, okay it's my job now to ask him a lot of questions, he gets so annoyed why is she asking me all these questions. See, from the explanation about we can assume that women love to communicate, she talk much. And according to John Gray, if a women wants to go do something with a man, she shouldn't just ask him what he wants to do. But she should, instead, tell him what she wants to do, and then ask him to join.

        And for those of you, a men, I'm sure that you already know about that condition, because you've been feeling all this time. And some of you might be think it's the simplest thing to understand but it's hardest thing to do. But no matter how much your women talk until makes you feel so uncomfortable, believe it, she just need you to be there for her, she wants you to listen to her. She doesn't want you to feel bad, she doesn't want you to be her problem solver, but she just wants you to be around her and she wants your shoulder to cry on. And if you do all of that, she literally thinks you for it or not she'll definitely appreciate it, truly. Just accepted your women when she's talking so much, all you need it just to listen to her.

       And have to say, I like this book, eventhough I've never had a very special relationship before, tragically :) yeahh. But I think it's not a big deal because, however, this book reminds me and open larger my mind that what I have thought and concerned as all my life is totally true. I had so many experienced as a human being and social creature, live among so many people who have a different characteristic in themselves. Because what I've got from the book is exactly the same thing with my experienced as long as I be around other people, THAT MAN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT IN SO MANY WAYS.

 And here it is, a little bit info for you guys in the middle of amazing day, hopefully.

     
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